Episode 113
A conversation with A Pariera
NON-BINARY TRANS MAN
44 min. Recorded on 26 September 2025.
A’s pronouns are he/they, and he identifies as a non-binary trans man. Find out what that means to A in this episode.
We talk about his journey from transitioning to detransitioning to retransitioning, going inward on a soul quest, embracing the journey, deconditioning, returning to home in the body, feeling safe, redefining masculinity and femininity and a spiritual and energetic perspective on these, and taking the long road.
“…it was a dark place, I didn’t understand that, and that’s what drove me to transition and want to just rip out of the pain rather than understand the pain. So detransitioning was years of unlearning all of these survival ways of living and patterns and beliefs that were handed from the outside world.”
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About A
A Pariera is a philosopher, guide, and mentor rethinking self, identity, and reality. After an eight-year journey of transitioning, detransitioning, and coming back to self and four years guiding others through their own transformation, A has devoted his life to helping people dismantle inherited scripts, rewrite subconscious beliefs, and embody their truest expression. He is the creator of the Liberation Method™ and Witnessing Framework™, guiding leaders, parents, and everyday humans to unlearn binary conditioning and live beyond performance-based identity. His work bridges deep inner transformation and collective liberation, reminding people that becoming who you truly are is an act of world-changing power. When he’s not leading transformative work, A is a husband, parent, and writer exploring spirituality, human potential, and what it means to build a liberated future for humanity.
You can find A on apariera.carrd.co and on Instagram, @thisisapariera.